So, you pursued a girl under the guise of "friendship" and things didn't work out as you'd planned - oh well, life goes on. Before you write her off into the realms of casual acquaintanceship, though, you should realize that there are many benefits to having female friends in your life, the majority of which can directly boost your love life. Read on to learn how having female friends can help you score more dates with hot girls, expand your dating pool, and more!
1) Wingwomen. As mentioned in my previous post, female friends are great wingwomen. Women are non-threatening to other women as "wingpeople" (we can more easily approach a girl you've been eyeing for an introduction with greater success than your guy friends can), will boost your status (see below), and can give great feedback while you're out in the "field". A female friend will tell you if you're wasting your time trying to talk to that chick at the bar, or can tell you if that girl on the dance floor has been eyeing you all night. Female intuition beats a male buddy's drunken encouragements any day! ;)
2) Hook-ups with hot friends. When you're friends with a girl, you have access to a wealth of potential dates that's too good to pass up! Rather than asking a girl friend randomly if she has any friends she could hook you up with (she might not be able to think of someone right off the top of her head), let her know what you're looking for (sporty girls, brainy types, girls with an adventurous streak) and she may be able to set you up. (Just be sure not to blame her if things don't work out!)
3) Boost your status. That's right, female friends can help "boost" your status, not only with male friends (what guy doesn't love walking into a club surrounded by a bunch of hot ladies??), but also - and especially - with other females, specifically, ones whom you may potentially date. A guy who's constantly surrounded by attractive females who like spending time with him and enjoy his company will definitely spark the attention and interest of other females. Don't be afraid to invite a female friend (or two) when going out clubbing with the boys sometime, or as a friendly date to your college roommate's wedding - she can help you single out potential dates (and put in a good word or two!).
4) Flirt practice. So you've just read this blog and wanted to practice some flirting tips, but don't feel like approaching random girls to try them out on just yet. Practice flirting with female friends - what have you got to lose? At worse, they'll just laugh it off or roll their eyes; at best, they'll respond favorably, and you'll know what you're doing is working!
5) Good ole companionship. "I don't like you, you don't like me, so there's no pressure, and we can just be ourselves." Once a male and female have reached that place in a friendship where it's established that neither has a romantic ulterior motive, hanging out can be fun and easy. Sometimes, you may just need a break from all the testosterone of being around guys, and spending time with a female friend can do just the trick.
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